Hi Steve;
Ditto on Amos’ comments, 2 thumbs up. I have also sailed out from Harbortown boat ramp on the Pungoteauge Creek and it was quite nice and laid back, very little boat traffic and a quality ramp.
If you’re looking for a location south of Norfolk and much closer to Vandemere there’s a small park on the Pasquotank River called One Mill Park. It’s south of Elizabeth City sorta in the boonies however it’s a lot closer. Before going there Id check to see if it’s OK to leave vehicle/trailer there for multiple days. I haven’t been there but it looks pretty suitable as long as there’s not a big Southern breeze.
Look forward to seeing you at the Messabout.
Todd