From what you've shown in the pictures I would say you have NOT ruined your boat.
It's terrible to see something that you put so much work and heart into get damaged but I think if you follow Frank's advice you'll be able to tell how much wood needs to be removed before deciding how to fix things. After you've let it dry and poked at it some you'll be better able to decide on a course of action.
If you look at the before and after pictures of some of the restoration projects on this forum you'll see that most anything is fixable

I hate that you've got damage after only a few months, though. Which reminds me - I need to get my boat out of my driveway and back to covered storage...